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Here at Cliterally The Best we focus on good vibrations! We believe feeling good should be prioritised and sex education is a human right & It's never to late to learn (or unlearn)! Read the latest shame-free sex + relationships articles on The Sex Positive Blog.

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The Benefits of Pubic Hair

The Benefits of Pubic Hair

Despite the hairless vulva’s popularity, however, there are many benefits of pubic hair that are not often talked about. And while we love vulvas of all hairstyles, we think it may be helpful to kn...

NewsTaking Part In Veganuary - Don't Forget Your Sex Life!

Taking Part In Veganuary - Don't Forget Your Sex Life!

It's Veganuary - where some of us try and stay away from the animal products for a month or begin a permanent switch. Last year, more than 500,000 people took part but many only go vegan in terms ...

Sex and The Pandemic: The NatSal-Covid Study

Sex and The Pandemic: The NatSal-Covid Study

The official study by Natsal that gives details on how the first lockdown impacted our sex lives has been released! This study was conducted in July 2020 and surveyed 6,500 people aged 18-59 years ...

How To Use: Air Pulse Sex Toys

How To Use: Air Pulse Sex Toys

Air pulse toys or 'Clit Suckers' as they are more commonly known are quickly becoming the new rabbit. Learn about with with the inventors of this technology.  

Why You Should Try Glass Sex Toys

Why You Should Try Glass Sex Toys

Glass sex toys are not only super pretty, they can really maximise your pleasure! Find out how here.

The Benefits of Mutual Masturbation

The Benefits of Mutual Masturbation

Masturbation is of course a great solo activity and it should always be included in your self-love routine, but why not do it with some one else?

Aftercare 101

Aftercare 101

What is Aftercare? ‘Aftercare’ is a term that stems from the BDSM community, however it is beneficial to all types of sexual activities!

Sex PositivityA Personal Story about Navigating Sex Positivity and Rejecting Toxic Masculinity by Armando Cabba

A Personal Story about Navigating Sex Positivity and Rejecting Toxic Masculinity by Armando Cabba

If you would’ve asked me 10 years ago what being sex positive meant or even what toxic masculinity is, I’d probably say “I’m totally sex positive, bro. I live to fuck” and ask for a high-five while...

Sexual HealthCan You Get Pregnant From Pre-Cum?

Can You Get Pregnant From Pre-Cum?

Without taking up too much of your time, the short story is that it is possible to get pregnant from pre-cum.  But let's go through some more of the specifics.    On average, 27 in 100 people will...

Is The 'G-Spot' Real?

Is The 'G-Spot' Real?

The G-Spot isn’t a specific gland, a body part or a magic button. It is actually a place on the anterior wall where the clitoris meets the urethral sponge and skene glands - which can feel reall...

how to clean your sex toys

How To Clean Your Sex Toys

Sex toys need to be loved as much as the orgasms they bring. Looking after them will ensure longevity and rid them of any pesky UTIs or STIs, so you can continue to enjoy them for as long as possi...

Things YOU Wish You Knew Before You Had Sex

Things YOU Wish You Knew Before You Had Sex

Lots of us weren't unprepared for our first time, thanks to poor sex ed and just lots of silly myths in our social groups.  It can often lead us to have mediocre and not that pleasurable sex for a ...

Sex Positivityhow to be a sex positive parent

Sex Positive Parenting

Learn all how to teach young kids consent and tips on being a sex positive parent with Cliterally The Best.

The Iconic Dick Pic Response

The Iconic Dick Pic Response

Creepy men who send unsolicited dick pics shouldn’t get away with it Scott Free! This amazing woman came up with the ultimate response, so you can watch them beg for help and maybe just maybe reco...

what is psychosexual therapy

What is Psychosexual/Sex Therapy?

Sex therapy/psychosexual therapy is much more than helping marriage problems, and it can benefit all of us! Therapy, in general, can get a bad wrap. A lot of us think it’s only for people with ‘pr...

Gynae Healthtypes of hymen diagram

The Truth About The Hymen & Virginity

by Kohe Lele The hymen… such an enigma revolves around this small part of a woman’s body. Is it a sign of virginity and does it have such an important meaning in some cultures? Let’s bust some myth...

PleasureHow To Tell Your Partner What You Like In Bed

How To Tell Your Partner What You Like In Bed

We all struggle with it at some point for many reasons. Our lack of sex ed, the shame we learn growing up etc. Whatever the reason, it makes it an unnecessarily awkward conversation but when you ma...

PleasureYour Sweetest Self-Care-On-Lockdown Guide

Your Sweetest Self-Care-On-Lockdown Guide

Did you realize that you may be being asked to use this time of sweet you-time-isolation to your advantage? Yes, that means time to focus on you. What a gift!