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Top 5 myths about HPV
Sexual Health

Top 5 myths about HPV

Despite HPV being highly common there’s an abundance of myths and misconceptions surrounding this STI, so we thought we’d tackle those myths and help you better understand HPV. 

NewsOfficial statement following the recent 'report' by Tory MP Miriam Cates on UK RSE

Official statement following the recent 'report' by Tory MP Miriam Cates on UK RSE

"cliterallythebest.co.uk has been cited in Miriam's report as an example of what is being taught in school RSE. Cliterally The Best and it's content (for example, choking & anal sex) is not be...

Gynae Health"I was told I can't have a pelvic exam if i'm a Virgin!"

"I was told I can't have a pelvic exam if i'm a Virgin!"

This article was brought to you by Dr. Sesay, you can checkout her other work here. There has been ALOT of talk on TikTok over the last few weeks about health care professionals telling people t...

Sexual HealthHow can I take control of my contraception as a penis wielder?

How can I take control of my contraception as a penis wielder?

There aren't many options for penis wielders to take control of contraception and it can leave those who want to feeling a little useless. So what can you do?

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Should You Use Hormonal Contraception?

A new study has reported that social media influencers are boycotting hormonal contraceptives despite backlash from medical professionals deeming the trend ‘risky’. But who should you believe? Is i...

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Top 10 HIV Myths

In light of HIV testing week 2023 we wanted to dispel some myths surrounding the virus to help fight against the misinformation and breakdown the stigma.

How Much Sex Should I Be Having?

How Much Sex Should I Be Having?

So, apparently the average times of sex that one has a year is 54 times, so roughly once a week. I call bullshit! Sure, there’s been a study… that’s 5 years old. But this study was of Americans onl...

Sexual HealthUncircumcised Penises Are Not Unhygienic

Uncircumcised Penises Are Not Unhygienic

The myth that circumcision improves hygiene originated at this time to mean the improvement of moral hygiene. Most of the world is uncircumcised and has no problem keeping their penises clean (whe...

PleasureWhy do we get hornier over the holidays?

Why do we get hornier over the holidays?

Have you found yourself especially horny lately? Does the sight of a Christmas tree make you want to get ~especially cozy~ with your partner?

Sex PositivityThe Benefits Of Being Naked

The Benefits Of Being Naked

Like a lot of us, I’ve struggled with body image over the last few years. As someone who definitely wouldn’t be considered skinny, I’ve always needed to juggle my desire for confidence with society...

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Wax Play

Wax play is exactly what it sounds like! Often, it consists of one partner dripping wax onto another during or before sex. Wax play can be a great way to incorporate some excitement and thrill in t...

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Why Porn literacy has to be included in Sex Ed?

What happens exactly when we ignore porn and don’t speak about it? We don’t have the necessary porn literacy tools to critique and question the messages porn sends us. 

Gynae HealthStruggling with Vaginal Dryness - You're Not Alone!

Struggling with Vaginal Dryness - You're Not Alone!

Vaginal dryness happens when the tissues on the wall of your vagina are dry which can lead to irritation and painful sex - but it's really not that uncommon and there are things you can do to help!

Sex PositivityFeminism is Being Anti Sex Trafficking Not Anti Sex Work

Feminism is Being Anti Sex Trafficking Not Anti Sex Work

Last month I shared this post on why sex work should be decriminalised and oh boy were some of you not happy! View this post on Instagram A post shared by Cliter...

PleasureHow To Choke In Bed (as safe as possible)

How To Choke In Bed (as safe as possible)

Over 60% of you have tried Choking in the bedroom at least once. This sexual act can be super dangerous when done incorrectly and most of us don't know how to do it correctly - we simply squeeze a...

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Outdoor Sex 101 - According To You

If you’ve ever thought about trying outdoor or public sex, you’ve come to the right place. We recently asked our Instagram followers what tips and tricks they had for outdoor sex and have compiled ...

Sex PositivityWhy Sex Work Must Be Decriminalized

Why Sex Work Must Be Decriminalized

 “if you have a problem with someone doing something they otherwise wouldn’t for money, you don’t have a problem with sex work - you have a problem with capitalism.”

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Demystifying The Female Orgasm

Growing up I learnt at a very early age that masturbation was something only males should partake in. I remember being 13 when the boys in my class would taunt the girls asking if they finger thems...

Sex 101Your Online Dating Safety Handbook with The UCLA Sexperts

Your Online Dating Safety Handbook with The UCLA Sexperts

Meeting a potential romantic partner from online dating can be exciting, but daunting. You deserve to take some steps to ensure your safety! This article on The Sex Positive Blog was written by T...

Sex 101Feeling Bi-Myself

Feeling Bi-Myself

Evie and I created some polls for pride month on Instagram, and although I knew that many folks struggled with LGBTQ+ acceptance, the results were a bit shocking.

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Goodbye Womb, Hello Life: Kayleigh's Hysterectomy Story

Kayleigh, my beautiful friend who you may remember from the first season of the sex positive podcast, recently had a hysterectomy at the age of 26. I am so so proud of her and extremely relieved s...

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Texas has harsher restrictions surrounding Sex Toys than Guns!

It's time to evaluate why Texas has fewer regulations surrounding literal murder dildos over actual dildos. 

The War on Teenage Girls

The War on Teenage Girls

My hatred for my own identity as a teenage girl was merely a microcosm of society’s larger disdain for teenage girl culture as a whole. Young women are routinely ridiculed and degraded for simply l...

The Benefits of Pubic Hair

The Benefits of Pubic Hair

Despite the hairless vulva’s popularity, however, there are many benefits of pubic hair that are not often talked about. And while we love vulvas of all hairstyles, we think it may be helpful to kn...