The Sex Positive Blog.

The War on Teenage Girls

My hatred for my own identity as a teenage girl was merely a microcosm of society’s larger disdain for teenage girl culture as a whole....

The Benefits of Pubic Hair

Despite the hairless vulva’s popularity, however, there are many benefits of pubic hair that are not often talked about. And while we love vulvas of...

Taking Part In Veganuary - Don't Forget Your Sex Life!

It's Veganuary - where some of us try and stay away from the animal products for a month or begin a permanent switch. Last year, more than...

Sex and The Pandemic: The NatSal-Covid Study

The official study by Natsal for how the first lockdown impacted our sex lives has been released! This study was conducted in July 2020 and...

How To Use: Air Pulse Sex Toys

Air pulse toys or 'Clit Suckers' as they are more commonly known are quickly becoming the new rabbit. Learn about with with the inventors of this...

Why You Should Try Glass Sex Toys

Glass sex toys are not only super pretty, they can really maximise your pleasure! Find out how here.

The Benefits of Mutual Masturbation

Masturbation is of course a great solo activity and it should always be included in your self-love routine, but why not do it with some...

Aftercare 101

What is Aftercare? ‘Aftercare’ is a term that stems from the BDSM community, however it is beneficial to all types of sexual activities!

A Personal Story about Navigating Sex Positivity and Rejecting Toxic Masculinity by Armando Cabba

If you would’ve asked me 10 years ago what being sex positive meant or even what toxic masculinity is, I’d probably say “I’m totally sex...

Can You Get Pregnant From Pre-Cum?

The short answer, yes. But I’m guessing you want more of an answer than that! On average, 27 in 100 people will get pregnant each year when using...

Is The 'G-Spot' Real?

The G-Spot isn’t a specific gland, a body part or a magic button. It is actually a place on the anterior wall where the Clitoris...

How To Clean Your Sex Toys

Sex toys need to be loved as much as the orgasms they bring. Looking after them will ensure longevity and rid them of any pesky...

Things YOU Wish You Knew Before You Had Sex

Lots of us weren't unprepared for our first time, thanks to poor sex ed and just lots of silly myths in our social groups.  It...

Sex, Gender & Sexuality

Not many of us are taught at school the difference between sex and gender but it’s important to know. Unlearn harmful beliefs here and share...

Sex Positive Parenting

Learn all how to teach young kids consent and tips on being a sex positive parent with Cliterally The Best.

Sex Work Vs Sex Trafficking

A big problem sex workers face in their career is the convolution of their work and sex trafficking – these are two VERY different things.

Racism In Medicine

Dr. Sesay is here to speak about racial disparities/health inequalities faced by different races in medicine and what we can do with this information to...

The Iconic Dick Pic Response

Creepy men who send unsolicited dick pics shouldn’t get away with it Scott Free! This amazing woman came up with the ultimate response, so you...

What is Psychosexual/Sex Therapy?

Sex therapy/psychosexual therapy is much more than helping marriage problems, and it can benefit all of us! Therapy, in general, can get a bad wrap....

The Truth About The Hymen & Virginity

by Kohe Lele The hymen… such an enigma revolves around this small part of a woman’s body. Is it a sign of virginity and does...

Disability & Pleasure

I’m Ginny from My Disabled Sex Life. You may think or have been told that due to disabilities you cant or shouldn’t have sex – i'm...

Porn Vs Real Life

• Porn

While A LOT of us regardless of gender watch porn – which more than fine, I blood love it! It’s important to remember that is...

How To Tell Your Partner What You Like In Bed

• Pleasure

We all struggle with it at some point for many reasons. Our lack of sex ed, the shame we learn growing up etc. Whatever the...

Your Sweetest Self-Care-On-Lockdown Guide

• Sex Toys

Did you realize that you may be being asked to use this time of sweet you-time-isolation to your advantage? Yes, that means time to focus on you. What a...