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"I had my first smear test, then received a letter saying that I had HPV" - Mel

I had my first smear test, then a few weeks later received a letter saying that I did have HPV. Upon receiving this I had no prior knowledge to what HPV actually was.  I had absolutely no idea how ...

'Some of You Guys Suck at Being Dominant' - Quinn Gray

Domination in bed is something frequently done with poor technique. Spanking, choking, and spitting seem like standard aspects of sex nowadays; I can't remember the last time I had sex and it wasn...

"My First Sex Party" - Emilie, London

I’ve written all about my first big sexual adventure in poetic form. For some reason I find it easier to express myself in rhyming couplets 😂. Shout-out to anyone else who can related to being an a...

"Am I the only one out there who masturbates with my legs crossed?" - Julia, Poland

Am I the only one out there who masturbates with my legs crossed instead of spread?" has been the question I've been asking myself for years. I felt uncomfortable about my method of masturbation. I...

"The idea I could be gay was so alien to me" - Kira, 18

I think discovering your sexuality isn’t restricted to realising you are not cis/straight but also is about realising what turns you on, what you are comfortable with, how to please yourself. So d...

"My Vulvodynia Story" - Lucianna, 21

Hiya, I’m Lucianna, I’m 21 and have struggled with Vulvodynia for as long as I can remember, I properly realised there was something wrong at the start of puberty roughly 12/13. Now I know that mig...

"My Bartholin Cyst Story" - Joy

I worked for Thomas cook as a holiday rep and every summer I would work seasons abroad, I was due to fly to Bulgaria in April 2019 so had a leaving party planned and leaving meal with my boyfriend....

"We learn to live with herpes, but it does not define us." - Ciara

Hi everyone, my name is Ciara, I am 22 and I have genital herpes, specially herpes simplex virus type 1. As many people know this virus is more commonly associated with oral herpes (cold sores). I ...

"My Lichen Sclerosus Story" - Kiki, 22

Most people will have never heard of this and I had never heard of it either. But I had this for multiple years and it really really bothered me. I believe I got it when I was about 18 years old an...

"My HPV Story" - Kiki, 22

When I first found out that there was something going on down there, it was because my boyfriend of 4 years said to me that he had some spots around his penis that he wanted to get looked at and he...

"To say that I experienced sexist and racist gaslighting from my doctors would be an understatement." - Ratha

I started my period at the age of 10, which was both unexpected and traumatic, as I had literally no idea what was happening, and my mum was unable to hide her distress at me starting so early. My ...

"My Coming Out Story" - Lottie

At age 11, I remember watching the film Titanic, and realising that I thought Kate Winslet (the actress who played Rose) was quite attractive. Like, really attractive. I realised I had my first cel...

"It’s no more shameful than having a common cold" - Dan

My ex boyfriend gave me Chlamydia. I was SO ashamed, I hid it from everyone. I went to the clinic to get tested for the first time ever, I was so nervous to get tested and then after that awful res...

'Most Myself' by Danielle Bezalel (DB)

  When do I feel most myself? It is when I touch my soft belly, Feel my smooth skin, Sing on a stage When I look In the mirror and am tingling At the sight of me When I can articulate the Most co...